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Parting with familiar places, possessions and people can be difficult for older adults, especially when it comes time to move into a smaller, more manageable home. Downsizing is a necessity for seniors when they’re no longer able to manage an oversized living environment with too much stuff.
Downsizing your belongings is just one part of the process. There’s also finding the right home for your golden years, a smaller space that’s well-adapted to your particular needs. Unfortunately, making a radical change in one’s living arrangements and space can be intimidating for someone who doesn’t know where to begin. It may seem like you’re giving up your life, surrendering a big part of yourself.
Fortunately, there are ways to help older adults understand the benefits of simplifying their lives at a time when their physical and/or mental faculties may have begun to degrade.
Identifying the clutter monster
Studies have revealed a tendency among seniors to hang onto belongings whether they’re needed or not, even when seniors recognize that they have too many belongings. In fact, another study found that more than 60 percent of seniors over the age of 70 say they have more belongings than they actually need, so recognizing the need to downsize and doing something about it are clearly two different things. A child or some other family member can be instrumental in convincing an elderly relative to downsize.
If appealing to common sense and pointing out the benefits of living simply don’t work, try another tactic such as suggesting they donate to a charity that helps a homeless shelter. One of the most effective arguments is that they must declutter if they intend to continue living independently in their own home, wherever that might be.
Decluttering
There’s no one way to declutter a home, but it is important to have a plan and stick with it. If decluttering is a new concept for you, try going room by room instead of attacking it all at once. Following a systematic pattern can make you feel that you have it under control if you approach it piecemeal. Make three separate “piles,” one for what’s to be thrown out, what will be donated and what you want to give away to friends and family. Take the time to handle each item and consider carefully before making a decision. Consider hiring a professional home organizer to help with this process (at an average hourly cost of around $65).
Finding the right home
Consider carefully what you need in a new home based on your physical health and any mobility limitations. Remember, you’re downsizing, so as you research homes in your area keep an eye out for smaller houses that are easier to manage and that meet your criteria and provide accessibility, or the option to make modifications. If you require an assistive mobility device such as a wheelchair, walker or cane, make sure the hallways and doorways are wide enough to accommodate you. Keep an eye out for a bathroom with grab bars in the shower and alongside the toilet, as well as a “curbless” shower that makes it easy to get in and out.
A smooth move
If you’re an older adult, downsizing is all about making things easier on yourself and eliminating hassles. The last thing you need to deal with is a headache on moving day. Make sure you carefully vet any moving company you’re considering and check their rating with the BBB. Meet with them ahead of time to go over any special requirements or concerns and plan ahead to protect your items.
Try not to see downsizing and moving into a smaller, more manageable home as a downgrade or a sign that you’re in decline. See it as a reward for all those years of hard work keeping a big house clean for your family. A smaller home with less clutter is your chance to sit back and enjoy yourself.
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